Today marks the 1462nd day since the start of the full-scale war in Ukraine—four years since the invasion began. The author shares personal observations about shifts in public mood, attitudes toward the military, and changes in social atmosphere, drawing from service experience on the Zaporizhzhia front.
During this time, society's outlook has shifted from fear and feelings of betrayal during the early stages, through fatigue, and now towards a state of broad acceptance. Now, statements like "we've been abandoned" or "we're very tired" are rarely heard. Instead, there is a growing separation between civilians and the military; for instance, civilians are increasingly reluctant to rent housing to military personnel, sometimes even preferring not to see them nearby, citing safety concerns.
The author highlights some examples of support for the military, though these are acknowledged as rare, and criticizes cases where civilians avoid soldiers or consider them unwanted neighbors. The rhetoric surrounding the enemy has also changed, with more specificity and fewer abstractions in public discourse.
The importance of preserving memory and nurturing new generations with clear values is stressed, as well as the need for constructive dialogue between different social groups. Despite difficulties, the military remains an integral part of society, and mutual support is called for.
Conclusion: After four years of full-scale war, Ukrainian society has become more resolute and straightforward, but new challenges have emerged regarding the relationship between civilians and the military—issues that require attention and open discussion.
